divorce attorney

i am usa citizen married to a philippino woman we met over the internet and ina matter of a few months we were married we should have never gotten married we knew nothing about each other and we was totaly not compatiable to each other. i want to find a divorce attorney that do it for me quick cheap and eash. i work in iraq idrive heavy truck all over iraq we get killed and bloswn up all of the time it is hard to comminicate with attorneys as there is limited resources here. i have had a n affair and my wife knows it but she also wants a divorce we have a 3 month old baby boy . she is mad as she says that i shamed her and her family even though she told me to go and find another wone to have as a parterner as she told me that she would not have sex with me and that she should have never gotten married as she did not love me as i loved her she told me that she did not love me any more. help me or refere me to who or where i can go to get this divorce as fast and cheap as possible please help me